Dear Reader,
You might have noticed that I haven’t posted for over two weeks. Well,
reader, although I love Istanbul and the great opportunity I have, it
has been a frustrating two weeks. Therefore, I decided to blog after my anxieties ease. After two and a half weeks
experiencing Athens and Istanbul, the small annoyances and miscommunication began to affect my mood substantially. There were a
number of practical errors that bothered me: only I couldn’t access my
meal plan money, I briefly thought my phone didn’t work, and my Turkish
class is really difficult. Yet, even those issues reflected my status as
an American in another country.
I also started to feel not only annoyed, but also disconnected from
everyone else. I am learning Turkish at a rapid rate, but I know there
is no way I’ll really be able to connect with any of the locals here
until I work on my Turkish for, at the very least, six months. Luckily, I
am going to be abroad for a longer amount of time, but that doesn’t
alleviate the current problem very much. I always feel foolish when I
resort to asking locals if they speak English. I know that I am not
being presumptuous, but it definitely looks like I am. I can see it in
they way people respond to me whenever I do that.
There are other difficulties that I have as well: contending with the
traffic, taxi drives, false friends, knowing when to bargain and not knowing
the layout of the city. Ultimately, I know these are problems that can
only be experienced by somebody with enough resources to actually
travel, but what allows me to recognize these issues as somewhat temporary is knowledge of culture shock.
A couple of you might have already started nodding your heads: “Ah...
the young lad is going through culture shock”. But since most of you
probably aren’t Irish psychologists, I’ll elaborate. According to
Macionis and Gerber, culture shock is the personal disorientation a
person may feel when experiencing an unfamiliar way of life due to
immigration or a visit to a new country, or to a move between social
environments. It’s something all of you have experienced, be it moving
to a new neighborhood or being a freshman in high school. Technically
speaking, it happens to all of us very frequently. Yet, I insist that
culture shock in another country is unlike anything I’ve experienced
before.
Luckily, I knew about culture shock ahead of time, thanks to DePauw’s
off-campus study office. They explained that there are four phases:
honeymoon, negotiation, adjustment and biculturalism. I definitely know
that I have been through the honeymoon phase already, though sometimes I
still experience the euphoria of being in Istanbul. Yet, this euphoria
does not have the same presence as it did when I first got here (see
earlier posts). Like most honeymoon periods, it eventually ends.
As far as I can tell, there are many ways in which people can respond to
culture shock. One can stereotype, learn more about the culture, study
the language, socialize with locals and / or with other foreigners,
isolate oneself, drink to oblivion, or find a new hobby. There are many
ways of coping, but not all of them make culture shock any easier. I’ll
leave it for you to decide which options help, and when they do. One of
my goals is mastering biculturalism. At the moment, I suppose it is
attainable, but it does not mean total assimilation.
A friend of mine, M, explained to me very well that there are some
differences that one cannot reach. Last night, I took a taxi from Taksim
with him. In the ride, I tried to converse with the driver in Turkish,
as I usually do, but this guy gave me the cold shoulder. It was not as
if he didn’t spoke Turkish; he understood M’s Turkish very well.
Several hours later, I brought it up in a conversation with M. He looked
at me and said, “You want to know the difference?” He gestured to me to
hold out my arm against his. My tanned, but white arm starkly
contrasted with his darker skin, which had “Redskin” (in Turkish)
tattooed.
It really comes down to that.
Thus, dear reader, there are differences we cannot overcome. We cannot
change other peoples’ attitudes and assumptions, nor can we completely
understand their backgrounds. This does not just apply to the few Turkish people that demonstrate resentment towards Western tourists; racial constructions are nearly universal.Yet, we should do more to understand one another, especially those with very different identities. In doing so, you might be able to understand what reasons people have for acting a certain way. By virtue of recognition, you'll probably learn more about how your own background affects your own behavior.
I know I will be doing both, as my privilege to have the great
opportunity of doing so obligates me to the task.
Saygılarımla
I took a few photos this week when I visited Topkapi Palace and the Grand Bazaar.
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| The place was covered with visitors! Even more so than Aya Sofia |
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| A very small, but elegant mosque. |
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| Another beautiful view of the straits from the palace. |
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| It was nice to get some shade in the palace gardens. |
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| Exiting the palace through the imperial gate. |
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| Entering the Grand Bazaar. |
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| The Grand Bazaar is one of the oldest, but one of the liveliest shopping areas of Istanbul |
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| I'll have that one. |
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| Complimentary tea, as to emphasize that many cultural encounters are pleasant. |